You might not have considered this, but when you work to fix your marriage, you are creating a miracle. That’s what a happy marriage is: a miracle. I don’t mean “stunning and rare” – like an eclipse, or raining fish. I don’t mean “endangered” either, although you can indeed go a long time without seeing […]
Can Counseling Lead to More Sex in Marriage?
The title of this blog is actually a trending topic, which means this question is on a lot of people’s minds – so apparently plenty of married couples out there are dissatisfied with their sex life, but don’t feel capable of fixing it themselves. Sex is just like everything else in a marriage: a collaboration, […]
How do I save my marriage after I cheated on my Husband?
Yes, you can save your marriage after cheating on your husband. In fact, your marriage can be much stronger than it was before (as impossible as that may feel right now) – if you are both willing to put in the work. That’s both of you – not just you, alhough you did make a […]
How To Save Your Marriage During Your Separation
So you’re separated, but you still want to try and make it work – things will be different now that you’ve had some time apart, right? Hopefully you’ll be able to relate to each other in new, positive ways, without falling into that same old dance you were doing before – all those automatic reactive […]
Relationship Conflicts: When It’s Family vs. Partner at Holiday Gatherings
Do the holidays back you into a corner, forcing you to “choose sides” between your partner and one or more family members? Is there a constant tension beneath all the hugs and smiles: your partner vs. your family? Maybe it’s a general attitude, or perhaps the conflict is over a specific issue: differing opinions about […]
Lovemaking Performance Anxiety: Wisdom from a Therapist
Here is the gentle truth about sexual performance anxiety – I send this video with love and care, and hopeful blessings for you! If you are on this blog’s front page click on this article’s title, or else just click this link…
No More Anxiety and Panic Attacks – Step One
Anxiety and panic attacks are epidemic. I hope this brief video is helpful in opening the door to your journey: to ending this torment once and for all…to access the video click here (or if you are on the blog front page, click on the title of this intro first, then the link will appear…)
How To Build Trust In A Relationship
Don’t buy into the lie that you can never really know if you can totally trust your partner – you absolutely can create this state of complete trust between you. This article will help you build unshakeable, rock-solid trust in your relationship- the kind where you both know that you would never hurt or betray […]
The Secret Reason Your Relationship Sucks During the Holidays (and how to fix it)
Do you love or hate the holiday season? That might depend on what’s happening with your spouse or lover, right? If you’re married or with a partner but you still feel empty and unfulfilled, then the holidays are just a swamp of piled-on activities, plodding tasks, pressures, expectations, and overlapping dramas – and it all […]
Video Blog: “But I Didn’t Say That!” – (When Your Partner Goes Nuts Over Nothing!)
There you are, having a rational discussion, when suddenly your partner misinterprets something you said – and goes ballistic on you! Even worse, no matter how you explain, they CLING to their anger – they won’t listen to reason! Well, the next time this happens, just think about this: (from the front page of the […]









