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Articles by Ray Rivers on couples.

Aug 13, 2026 · 4 min read

You love your partner. You don't want to fight with them - you don’t want drama of any kind! So why are…

Apr 9, 2026 · 10 min read

Your wife is smart – so how is it even possible that she doesn’t see it: You told her she’s irrational (which…

Oct 16, 2025 · 5 min read

When we’re arguing with our partner and our emotions take over, we end up saying and doing things that we really regret…

Oct 7, 2025 · 3 min read

What do you do if the tools don’t work? What if all of those amazing strategies you’ve been given - The “I”…

Sep 22, 2025 · 1 min read

If you want to finally break the pattern of conflict that so many couples find themselves in, stuck in that toxic dance…

Jul 21, 2025 · 6 min read

All Couples In Therapy Face This Moment You leave your breakthrough couples session feeling hopeful and relieved – Inspired by your renewed…

Jun 16, 2025 · 8 min read

Make It Stop! When your marriage is struggling, I know from personal experience that the emotional pain is suffocating agony - like…

May 14, 2025 · 5 min read

It happens every day, in thousands of therapy sessions and millions of relationships… One partner confronts the other over a negative incident…

Mar 13, 2025 · 7 min read

It’s a pattern I encounter frequently in couples: the husband complaining that the wife is constantly either irritable, nagging or lashing out…

Feb 4, 2025 · 7 min read

You might not have considered this, but when you work to fix your marriage, you are creating a miracle. That’s what a…

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