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Honestly I don't know where to begin. Before the session I told my husband we will see what happens and worse case hoping we could remain friends . I felt there was no turning back from our broken marriage and time had taken it's course. During the session Ray was so natural in the conversation , had an answer for every question , broke down the explanation for the feelings we had and did not sugar coat anything . After the first session during our talks the next day I was even able to answer a question to my husband based on Ray's explanation of why we felt this way. There are no words that can explain what Ray did for us in one session , he saved our marriage, our children from the pending breakup and our lives. Just the one session taught us to communicate more, how the lack of communication hurt us and honestly we are so grateful that we found Ray. Our marriage is the best ever, don't wait if you need help, glad we are healthy enough to still enjoy our new found love. Ray may you continue to bless lives, forever grateful!

M JohnsonGoogle review

Ray was a "last resort." When we first spoke with him, I expected to be filing for divorce within the year. We'd already seen two other marriage therapists and had a volatile relationship that was getting worse after a betrayal of trust. Ray spent nearly two hours on our "consultation" alone, and had a completely different approach to anyone we'd seen before. He provided us the opportunity to not just listen but hear each other and work through the baggage that created our animosity. He addressed our concerns and needs equally, and I am amazed how the resentment I had built up became so unimportant. Letting that go let me love my husband again, and we both communicate so much better and have rediscovered connection and intimacy in our marriage. Ray's approach is simple and to the point; he doesn't mess around. I barely had the energy left to just show up, but that's all it took to completely turn us around. Ray gave us both hope for the future again.

Melissa KellyGoogle review

Working with Ray is like working with no other therapist. It’s been an amazing experience, and he’s truly changed my life and my marriage. We had already tried multiple marriage counselors and over a year of counseling, and Ray helped our marriage more in our first sessions than that entire year of previous counseling.

Ray is intelligent, knowledgeable, and passionate and is highly effective at what he does - he helped us make changes in our marriage to get to a place of love and peace rather than conflict. I’ll be forever grateful for the energy and care that he puts into his work that impacted my family by helping both my husband and me to make amazing changes in our lives.

On day one, Ray already had an in depth understanding of what we needed, and we were able to hit the ground running and make immediate changes that got us to a much better place that same day. Through our continued sessions, our marriage transformed completely, and I have been able to use the skills across other relationships and facets of my life.

I know that when I initially read Ray’s website, I wasn’t sure if what he was saying we’d accomplish through his program was possible - but we decided to take the plunge, and what Ray says is true. If you follow Ray’s methods, your marriage, other relationships, as well as your overall mental wellbeing WILL be immensely improved.

Miranda OlidenGoogle review

I thought I was in a happy relationship and marriage for nearly 20 years. However, over the past year, I discovered that my spouse was deeply unhappy in our marriage, which came as a complete surprise to me. Divorce was a possibility now, and I could not imagine my life without the love of my life by my side.

We needed help and searched online for marriage counselors. We read dozens of Google reviews and called a few of them to see who would be a good fit. Although Ray Rivers had excellent reviews, we were unsure whether he would be the right fit for us. We are both immigrants, so numerous cultural and family dynamics were at play that also needed to be addressed, in addition to our individual issues. We decided to take a chance with Ray. We met with him in-person for more than 90-minutes separately and discussed our issues. We were sold after the first meeting that Ray could definitely help us!

Over the next several months, we held our sessions with Ray virtually (he offered to do them in person if that was what we wanted, but with our busy schedules virtual was more practical). We would always attend our sessions together, every 1-3 weeks for 1-2 hours. From day one, Ray has provided us with guidance and steps on how to navigate our complex feels and breaking two decades' worth of old habits. He coached us through scenarios and emulated the desired behavior instead of just telling us what to do. To watch someone show you the difference between your ways and a more loving approach was a game changer for us. While we did not flip the switch overnight, Ray's continued patience and guidance over 8-months helped us rebuild our marriage. In hindsight we realized from day one Ray had been instilling in us a new way of thinking about our relationship and better methods of communicating with each other. We were actively practicing his methods, but it took time for them to become ingrained in our minds and, more importantly, for both of us to feel their effects. The changes were taking place piece by piece, but as a couple, we could not see the big impact right away. It is as if you are looking up at a pyramid after each step, thinking that we have been climbing, but we still have so many steps to go. Before we knew it, we had reached the top and conquered all the steps. I remember Ray telling us at the very beginning that his methods would change our behavior towards each other as if it were second nature, which is exactly how we feel now. We still plan to meet with Ray periodically to keep us humble. Ray has been a savior for our marriage. Thank you, Ray!

SamGoogle review

Working with Ray has been absolutely life changing. When we first came to him we were hopeless and stuck in our relationship. Our previous therapist told us to give up on our relationship, that it was unfixable. Once we saw Ray we quickly realized he didn’t just put a band aid on our problems, he went straight to the root and guided us through deep healing in ways we never imagined possible. My husband and I started to see change from the first session we had with him. We started to realize how much we loved each other again. What makes Ray truly extraordinary from all our many many couples therapist is Ray has a rare mix of qualities he is wise spiritual, funny, real, honest and authentic. He has this incredible ability to break down walls that my partner and I never wanted to face, helped us move past what was holding us back, and opened doors to growth on every level, emotionally, mentally & spiritually. My partner and were able to actually see each other again after years of holding so much resentment and hate. Every session felt mind eye opening, we both started to see our problems face on and Ray guided us with solutions. Also Ray gave us extra time when we needed it, never rushed us, and showed up fully present every single time. His approach is both sharp and deeply spiritual yet also down to earth and relatable. He is that perfect balance of compassionate support and straightforward honesty. Because of Ray our relationship has transformed in every way! We are communicating better, healing old wounds, and building an exciting future together. with more love understanding, and connection than we thought possible. If you’re looking for someone who is truly authentic, deeply gifted and committed to making real transformation in your relationship look no further, Ray is the best of the best!

Janice CollinsGoogle review

Where to start? I had known Ray Rivers since I was a young man, but as often happens people go their own ways and you don't see each other for many years. For whatever reason, the universe brought us back together just in the nick of time. We came together to discuss old times and to learn about what was new in each other's lives. Ray told us about his growing practice and we were very excited for him and what he was doing, but my wife and I never thought that we would ever need his services. That did not turn out to be true. A year and a half ago my wife and I found ourselves in the midst of a severe marital crisis. We had decided that the relationship was not worth continuing and we both agreed the divorce was the only way forward. Soon after this decision, and unbeknownst to me, my wife reached out to Ray and had a long discussion with him. Later that same day she called me and told me and if I wanted to save our relationship I should call Ray as well. I told my wife that I had just spoken to Ray, and I told her that I did want to save it. I called Ray back and he set up a time for us later that evening. Upon walking in the door, Ray promised us that we were going to fix this problem right here and right now. I was very resistant to the wisdom he was sharing with us that evening. He spoke some very difficult truths. Difficult for an old friend to say to another, and difficult to hear on my part. Over the next 12 hours or so, I experienced one of those come-to-jesus moments. Through his wisdom, I began to let go of the self-righteous positions that were causing me so much pain, and causing so much turmoil in my relationship. That next day I decided to surrender all that negativity to God and let it all go. I decided that my relationship was worth it. I decided that it was to my benefit to humble myself before my wife, to the point of getting on my knees and kissing her feet. That was a very powerful moment, and it not only changed our relationship, it changed my entire life. I soon figured out that the same problems I was having in my relationship with my wife were being repeated throughout my life, with friends, family, and at work. This wisdom he shared started me on a path that has brought about so much healing throughout my entire life. I am so grateful for his wisdom and his friendship. I will never be able to fully repay him for the gifts he has shared with us. Thank you Ray.

Roger ColvinGoogle review

Ray Rivers is the real deal. My husband and I had been in a very dark place for the last 10 years. We have attempted to see numerous therapist with no success. Whenever we attempted to talk about issues it would lead to a horrible argument and days of not speaking to one another in addition to sleeping separately. Ray has a spiritual connection to a higher power that is truly like none I’ve ever seen. He was able to give us the tools that we needed to open the doors to communication and to forgive one another and move forward. My husband and I have been talking non stop and have been able to talk about any and every issue that has ever plagued our relationship. We no longer have to walk around on egg shells. I have my best friend and love of my life back. Ray I will never be able to thank you for all that you have done for us. You are truly a God Send.

Nicole Johnson-NesmthGoogle review

Mr. Ray Rivers is definitely a blessing in disguise. The way that he goes about treating his patients is definitely one of a kind. After being in a dark place for over 10 years with my spouse he has brought us to the light. He has changed my life, my family life and my marriage for the best. The words that he said to us during our one on one session has definitely opened my eyes that both of us took advantage of one another. Like they say 3rd times a charm. Mr. Ray is our 3rd time seeing a counselor but I can say this will be our last because of the tools that he has given us and the way that he makes us look at life. I just want to thank Ray for saving my family. To any man out there reading this please go in with a open mind and heart. Be willing to do whatever it takes to have a happier home and happier family. For those of you who have kids you just don't know what you are doing to them. I have 3 kids and I definitely know what I've done to them, so please take the next step to be loved and happy.

David NesmithGoogle review

Mr. Rivers was a very instrumental part in saving my marriage! If it wasn’t for him, we most likely would not have made it! He did exactly what he said he could do. From the initial conversation prior to starting therapy, I felt very confident in Mr. Rivers! He has a way of making you feel very comfortable right from the start. He is unlike any other counselor out there in the sense that he dives right into your problems from the very beginning. He doesn’t waste any time. He’s also very upfront and will tell you exactly how it is which is what we needed. No one wants to wait months on end to get to the root of the problem. He guaranteed immediate results which he 100% delivered! As a result, my wife and I are doing 10 times better and we have Mr. Rivers to thank for that! He is definitely the real deal! No gimmicks, no sugarcoating things, just straight telling you what you need to hear! He gives you the tools that you need to save your marriage and to make it thrive, but you ultimately have to do the work. I highly recommend Mr. Rivers to anyone out there who is experiencing any type of difficul

Ronnie StocksGoogle review

My husband and I came go Ray very broken. I found Ray in a google search and reached out to him via text message just like his page states. I text him and he got right back to me. I'm pretty sure I reached out to him on a Thursday and we had our free consultation on Friday evening. I am so grateful we found him!!! He truly helped us. We still have a couple more sessions with him however from working with him and doing what he has told us to do we are in a way better place. We love each other, we talk and don't bicker. It feels like we are as in love as we were when we started our relationship 17 years ago. Ray is wonderful person, great listener. He does not take sides, he doesn't blow smoke just to appesse someone so they don't get angry, he is real. I hope he takes what he has taught us into the whole world because our world needs it!! He is a great relationship counselor and I would recommend him to anyone. Thank you Ray from the bottom of our hearts. Please keep doing what you do and share your gift with the world, it needs it.

Heather WilsonGoogle review

Ray rivers so helpful in my marriage. We were truly on the brink of divorce and I couldn't even be in the same room as my husband without having a panic attack. When we reached out to him I was going through so much and just completely felt worthless. I also felt like everyone wanted me to just forgive and forget with in a manner of seconds and no one was understanding what I was going through. He provided reassurance, made it clear my expectations from my husband weren't crazy and reminded me of how well I'm doing. within in 4 sessions he helped out my husband and I connect more with each other. He made us have the difficult conversations and even talk about things we had repressed for a couple of years and talk about them. He truly cares about his clients improving more than anything. He does an awesome job at making time for his clients. He doesn't just fool around and extend sessions more than needed. He doesn't turn off the laptop the second time is up, He makes sure the conversation is thoroughly over and there's nothing left on your chest. He really made our relationship more whole. He's really awesome, he's very fast with improving, he's so welcoming as well.

Hafsa KhanGoogle review

We can’t thank Ray enough. Ray saved our marriage. We went to therapy before with someone else but it did not help us at all. Ray helped us after just one session because he gets right to the point. He is different from any other therapist. When ur marriage isn’t doing well you don’t have months and months to wait. So Ray digs right in and gets to the point and we right away started seeing changes in our marriage. He got through to my husband and my husband actually hears me now and is putting the effort in. He makes you feel comfortable and not judged. We couldn’t be happier with Ray. Thank you so

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