When we’re arguing with our partner and our emotions take over, we end up saying and doing things that we really regret – Things that really hurt our relationship… Which is a great opportunity for us to learn how to change – So that we can grow together as a team – And also evolve […]
The First Step For Married Couples To Stop Fighting
If you want to finally break the pattern of conflict that so many couples find themselves in, stuck in that toxic dance you both hate: Where you truly care for each other, but can’t stop communicating like opponents rather than teammates – You need to really get that the first step is the hardest. I’m […]
Lovemaking Performance Anxiety: Wisdom from a Therapist
Here is the gentle truth about sexual performance anxiety – I send this video with love and care, and hopeful blessings for you! If you are on this blog’s front page click on this article’s title, or else just click this link…
No More Anxiety and Panic Attacks – Step One
Anxiety and panic attacks are epidemic. I hope this brief video is helpful in opening the door to your journey: to ending this torment once and for all…to access the video click here (or if you are on the blog front page, click on the title of this intro first, then the link will appear…)
The Secret Reason Your Relationship Sucks During the Holidays (and how to fix it)
Do you love or hate the holiday season? That might depend on what’s happening with your spouse or lover, right? If you’re married or with a partner but you still feel empty and unfulfilled, then the holidays are just a swamp of piled-on activities, plodding tasks, pressures, expectations, and overlapping dramas – and it all […]
Why Lovemaking Fails And How To Overcome It
You love each other – so why is it so weird? This could be the key….if you are on the blog front page, click on this article’s title to get to the video page, where you can click this link…
Video Blog: Is Your Partner Too Insecure (or anxious or depressed)?
I wish I didn’t see this so often with couples – one partner feels the other is just way too anxious or insecure – and they’re sick of it! But no matter how much of a “good guy” or gal they think they’ve been, it is almost ALWAYS the case that they haven’t worked as […]
How to Discuss “Eggshell” Topics
One of the biggest challenges couples face is: how to talk about “eggshell” topics – those topics that you can’t discuss without fighting, or hurting feelings, or getting defensive – topics that one way or another, whenever you approach them, you both ending up feeling like crap about the relationship… Topics like: in-laws and relatives […]





