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When we’re arguing with our partner and our emotions take over, we end up saying and doing things that we really regret – Things that really hurt our relationship… Which is a great opportunity for us to learn how to change – So that we can grow together as a team – And also evolve […]
What To Do If My “Stay Calm” Advice to Stop Fighting Doesn’t Work
What do you do if the tools don’t work? What if all of those amazing strategies you’ve been given – The “I” statements, the empathy, the validation, the communication techniques – What if, in the moment that you deploy them, your partner stays triggered, or even escalates? You were hoping they would suddenly “snap out […]
Can People “Really” Change?
When we work together I want you to feel lighter – relief! – right away – radical change without wasting time – so you can breathe again, as fast as possible – And our results are usually, remarkably, strong – That’s why I created this program – And when we feel complete with our work […]
The Fastest, Deepest Marriage Repair: A Combination of Science and Spirit
Make It Stop! When your marriage is struggling, I know from personal experience that the emotional pain is suffocating agony – like being stuck in a hot car with the windows up: brutal and unbearable and you crave fresh air! So you go to a therapist, maybe, or a relationship coach, or some kind of […]
How to Finally Get Closure on an Issue
It happens every day, in thousands of therapy sessions and millions of relationships… One partner confronts the other over a negative incident or situation from “the past” – While the other demands: “Why do you keep bringing that up? What else is there to say? How can we ever move on if you won’t get […]
How NOT to work with your marriage therapist or relationship coach
You might not have considered this, but when you work to fix your marriage, you are creating a miracle. That’s what a happy marriage is: a miracle. I don’t mean “stunning and rare” – like an eclipse, or raining fish. I don’t mean “endangered” either, although you can indeed go a long time without seeing […]
Video Blog: “But I Didn’t Say That!” – (When Your Partner Goes Nuts Over Nothing!)
There you are, having a rational discussion, when suddenly your partner misinterprets something you said – and goes ballistic on you! Even worse, no matter how you explain, they CLING to their anger – they won’t listen to reason! Well, the next time this happens, just think about this: (from the front page of the […]
