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When squabbles come up between you and your partner, are you a straight-talking truth-teller? Or is that just how you rationalize being mean? There is a better way, you know: you can actually handle these scenes in a way that brings you closer together, instead of creating a rift! If...

OK, my title sounds pretty dubious  - do you like the picture? - but no matter who you are, if you're stressed out in your relationship, and you watch the video, you will know I speak only Truth about your problem - and the solution! If you are on the...

You love each other - so why is it so weird? This could be the key....if you are on the blog front page, click on this article's title to get to the video page, where you can click this link...

I wish I didn't see this so often with couples - one partner feels the other is just way too anxious or insecure - and they're sick of it! But no matter how much of a "good guy" or gal they think they've been, it is almost ALWAYS the case...

It’s a basic timeless relationship conflict, but it runs so deep: Neat vs. Sloppy. One of you is an organized clean-as-you-go (then go back and tidy) neat-freak, while the other is a slipshod slovenly mess. This conflict usually goes on for years and leads to endless arguing, frustration, resentment, and...

One of the biggest challenges couples face is: how to talk about “eggshell” topics – those topics that you can’t discuss without fighting, or hurting feelings, or getting defensive – topics that one way or another, whenever you approach them, you both ending up feeling like crap about the relationship…...

If there is tension and fighting between you and your partner, this video will help you understand, in ways you may not have understood before, the effects on teens and kids. If you're on the front home page of my blog, click on the title of this article. Or if...

What does a healthy relationship look like? This is one of the most-asked questions on the internet – which means that millions of people don’t know if they are doing it “right.” Maybe you think you are “supposed to” hold hands all the time, and gaze into each other’s eyes,...

Another mass shooting yesterday…another school assaulted….unbearable pain for the kids and families…agony in our hearts…we send prayers to Florida, and at the same time feel helpless that this is all we can do…. We all share the same wounded scream to the heavens: “WHY, GOD? HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?” And...

If you think you are dealing with sexual issues in your relationship, guess what: your issues are really much deeper than sex. However, they are showing up in your relationship in the form of sex. For the purposes of this blog, let’s define “sexual issues” as: one or both of...