It’s a pattern I encounter frequently in couples: the husband complaining that the wife is constantly either irritable, nagging or lashing out at him – To the point that it feels unbearable – They often describe it as “disrespectful.” It’s when the wife constantly addresses him in an angry, blaming...

What’s the difference between a “power couple” and a “spiritual power couple”? A “power couple” consists of “two people who are each influential and successful in their own right.” That’s according to society’s standard-bearer for the English language, the Oxford English dictionary. But there’s no Oxford definition for “spiritual power...

You might not have considered this, but when you work to fix your marriage, you are creating a miracle. That’s what a happy marriage is: a miracle. I don’t mean “stunning and rare” – like an eclipse, or raining fish. I don’t mean “endangered” either, although you can indeed go...

The title of this blog is actually a trending topic, which means this question is on a lot of people’s minds - so apparently plenty of married couples out there are dissatisfied with their sex life, but don’t feel capable of fixing it themselves. Sex is just like everything else...

Yes, you can save your marriage after cheating on your husband. In fact, your marriage can be much stronger than it was before (as impossible as that may feel right now) – if you are both willing to put in the work. That’s both of you - not just you,...

So you’re separated, but you still want to try and make it work - things will be different now that you’ve had some time apart, right? Hopefully you’ll be able to relate to each other in new, positive ways, without falling into that same old dance you were doing before...

Do the holidays back you into a corner, forcing you to “choose sides” between your partner and one or more family members? Is there a constant tension beneath all the hugs and smiles: your partner vs. your family? Maybe it’s a general attitude, or perhaps the conflict is over a...

Here is the gentle truth about sexual performance anxiety - I send this video with love and care, and hopeful blessings for you! If you are on this blog's front page click on this article's title, or else just click this link...

Anxiety and panic attacks are epidemic. I hope this brief video is helpful in opening the door to your journey: to ending this torment once and for all...to access the video click here (or if you are on the blog front page, click on the title of this intro first,...

Don’t buy into the lie that you can never really know if you can totally trust your partner - you absolutely can create this state of complete trust between you. This article will help you build unshakeable, rock-solid trust in your relationship- the kind where you both know that you...

Do you love or hate the holiday season? That might depend on what’s happening with your spouse or lover, right? If you're married or with a partner but you still feel empty and unfulfilled, then the holidays are just a swamp of piled-on activities, plodding tasks, pressures, expectations, and overlapping...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XelwII_epCE&t=3s This is always the first thing anyone must learn to break through their old habits of fighting and arguing in their relationship - or in any life conflict, really...

Well, obviously if I'm putting quotes around "doesn't work," it means my advice really does work - and powerfully! But I get it: what if you take the initiative during a moment of high tension to be calm and caring, but they still keep coming at you like a wild...

When tension breaks out between you and your partner, do anger and blame take you over - so totally! - that you can't stop yourself from saying things that can only make it all worse - even if you are TOTALLY RIGHT? Here's a little teaching that might help you...

There you are, having a rational discussion, when suddenly your partner misinterprets something you said - and goes ballistic on you! Even worse, no matter how you explain, they CLING to their anger - they won't listen to reason! Well, the next time this happens, just think about this: (from...

When squabbles come up between you and your partner, are you a straight-talking truth-teller? Or is that just how you rationalize being mean? There is a better way, you know: you can actually handle these scenes in a way that brings you closer together, instead of creating a rift! If...

OK, my title sounds pretty dubious  - do you like the picture? - but no matter who you are, if you're stressed out in your relationship, and you watch the video, you will know I speak only Truth about your problem - and the solution! If you are on the...

You love each other - so why is it so weird? This could be the key....if you are on the blog front page, click on this article's title to get to the video page, where you can click this link...

I wish I didn't see this so often with couples - one partner feels the other is just way too anxious or insecure - and they're sick of it! But no matter how much of a "good guy" or gal they think they've been, it is almost ALWAYS the case...

It’s a basic timeless relationship conflict, but it runs so deep: Neat vs. Sloppy. One of you is an organized clean-as-you-go (then go back and tidy) neat-freak, while the other is a slipshod slovenly mess. This conflict usually goes on for years and leads to endless arguing, frustration, resentment, and...